Cord cutting is best done during a New Moon, as it signifies a whole new beginning. You can conduct a ritual in any way that you personally feel suits you and the other. You can even conduct these during a Full Moon if you wish. None of my rituals are alike, even if it’s the same kind of ritual. I always feel guided to conduct rituals in different ways, as for instance, each individual carries with them unique energy. So, not every cord cutting can be the same.
What adds more power to the ritual is DNA. If you add a person’s hair, saliva, blood… even something they touched, their business card, their picture…. it becomes more potent. More targeted. You do not HAVE to have these things. You DO need to have a very good visual of the person that you can hold in your mind with zero distractions for a good period of time. Only thinking about and visualizing this individual. Your mind, your intentions as well as your emotions are the best tools you can utilize for any ritual that you want to conduct. Candles, incense, crystals, flowers, cloths, whatever it may be adds a personal touch but isn’t completely necessary. I will say that Cinnamon does add more power and speed to what you are doing. Cinnamon is Red Hot and Spicy, so it emulates the Fire Element.
When it comes to a cord cutting ritual I like to have a piece of string or rope (again it depends on the individuals energy sometimes as to what color I choose). If you know the target’s favorite color for instance, you can utilize that color with them. What I personally like to do is use the color white when I would like to wish the person well but our connection is over. I will use the color black when the connection has been toxic. The color black to me carries an energy of seriousness, of a protective stance. So, that’s why I like to use the color black when it comes to toxic connections. I’m not saying that the color black is toxic. Because it’s not.
Most of my ritual work I like to conduct at night in between the hours of 11 PM to 1 AM. That’s my own personal preference of which I was guided to do. If you feel guided to conduct ritual work in the morning or the afternoon, so be it. There is no right way or wrong way when it comes to your own way.
It’s best to prep for rituals that will be conducted by way of your mind and your emotions as well as set up. To explain in depth, I like to sit in the energy for several days or several weeks as to what I am about to do. Taking in the past, all visuals, all emotions as to what occurred, visual and emotion as to what I would like to occur once the ritual is conducted. It is honestly best not to conduct a ritual when you are angry, anger has this quality to it that can cause the situation to backfire or spin out of control. I know that there are others who may disagree with me and who like to conduct rituals while they are angry, again that is their own personal preference. I never conduct a ritual where I am wishing harm against another, instead I will utilize a gray type of ritual, asking for the karma that they gave to me to be given back to them. The universe decides what it will do to that person based upon what they have done to me.
When the day and time comes that you are ready to conduct your ritual, you will have everything in front of you. Your mind and your emotions will be prepped. You can have a piece of paper and a pen on your altar or table, or wherever you decide to do this, remember there’s no right or wrong way. You can write the persons name up at the top of the paper. And as you stare at the name begin to visualize the individual that you want to target. You want to close your eyes after about a minute as you visualize them for 10 minutes. Do not allow any other person to enter into your mind. If someone else slips into your mind you will have to begin again. If you have a picture of this person you can stare at the picture instead for 10 minutes. I find internal visualization more potent for me personally. You can set a timer on your phone or whatever tool you use, just try to have no other distractions and turn your notifications off. If you are new at this and you find staring at a picture easier to begin with then do so. You can always work your way up to internal visualization. Allow yourself to feel their energy, you can always utilize your memory of their energy. Visualize and feel them. Think about your intentions for them as well as your intentions to cut this connection. During this time you may pick up whatever DNA that is attached to them or whatever they have touched. Again, this is not a requirement, it just adds more potency. Allow your fingers to run over the object as you visualize.
You can do this with energy itself as well, if you’re not targeting a person, but instead a negative energy that has consumed your life. You would then visualize what has been happening to you and how it will end. How you will reclaim your power to control the energy around you.
Remind yourself when dealing with another that you aren’t wishing them any harm with this cutting, you are basically trying to take back control around your environment and yourself so that you will no longer have any negative lingering energy or have to deal with this individual for whatever reason.
Near the end of visualization you will then visualize your life and how you will feel without this person. Most likely you will be filled with light energy and happiness. Allow those emotions to take over your whole body. As you Inhale a deep breath imagine your whole body cocooning itself in a white healing, protective light. This is now your shield. After 5 seconds, as you exhale you are releasing the negative energy this person or the energy itself has held on you. Open your eyes and pick up the string or cord of your choosing and imagine yourself cutting ties to that individual as you snip or cut it in the middle.
As you are doing this you may state whatever you wish. An example can be : “ I relinquish all ties to this individual (energy), they can no longer contact me or control me. They will forever be blocked from me and my life. So shall it be!” As you do this feel yourself as a very strong individual who won’t accept anything else. You can word your own ending phrase in any matter that you see fit. Personally, this is normally the time when I will light a white candle and allow it to burn for 10 minutes. Some like to allow the candle to burn all the way down. Whatever works for you. I just don’t like to leave candles burning. If you are doing this in a controlled atmosphere you can even decide at this time to burn the individuals picture, piece of hair, business card… Etc. but you need to be extremely careful, as you don’t want to set your house on fire.
After the ritual is complete, you may want to sage your workspace and your environment. Starting in the middle of the room and pushing the energy out of your window. Then sage your whole body. Try not to think about the ritual that you just conducted and re-focus your mind on something else. Any wonder, doubt or worry could cause the ritual not to work very well. I also personally don’t tell anyone when I conduct rituals because I feel as though their thoughts may damage the results in some way. I will record in a journal the details of the rituals that I conduct. Keeping note of the date, the time, possibly the moon phase, the ritual that I conducted, the individual that it was conducted on, what was used during the ritual and then the results. Most results occur within a month time frame. If you notice that nothing has changed you can after a month conduct the ritual again.
I hope this has been helpful for you and if you have any questions feel free to contact me.
Blessed Be to You and Yours!